Imam Sajjad (as) said “There are three (qualities) which if present in a faithful, he is supported and backed by Allah. Allah provides him the shade of His celestial throne and secures him from the great horror of the dooms day: the one who gives those rights to the others that he wishes and looks forwards to from the others. And the man who does not extend his hand and does not take a step ahead till he knows (for sure) that his step is in the (direction of) obedience of Allah or in his sin. And the person who does not find fault with his brother till he abandons that fault himself.”[i]

[i] BIHAR UL ANWAR VOL 78, P 141

Imam Sajjad (as) said “There are three (things) which are refuges and shelters for a faithful; to refrain his tongue from the people and their back biting, and keeping himself busy with things (matters) which are beneficial for his future, here after and the world; protracted and lengthy weeping upon his sin.”[i]

[i] TUHFUL AQOOL P 282